How to Have Better Sex
- Natural Healing
- April 6, 2023
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- 5 minutes read
The purpose of this article is to emphasize the importance of communication when having sexual relations with your partner.
This article also includes some techniques for increasing sexual pleasure.
Some people find it embarrassing to talk about having sex, but if we want to maximize our sexual pleasure, we need to talk about it openly. Communication is essential; you must be able to express to your partner what you like and how you like it.
Kissing
Ask your partner if and where she likes to be kissed. Your partner may also inquire as to if and where you want to be kissed.
Oral Sex
When performing cunnilingus on your partner, you can tell her, “Don’t be afraid to tell me if you want me to go up, down, right, left, faster, slower, harder, or lighter.” Alternatively, your partner may prefer that you stay in one place while she moves her hips in different directions.
Be prepared to perform cunnilingus until your partner tells you she’s finished.
Furthermore, when performing oral sex on your partner, you can say “let me know if you want me to put my finger here or there,” or your partner can say “I would like you to put your finger here or there.”
If you and your partner are only interested in having intercourse and your partner has vaginal dryness, you can briefly perform cunnilingus on your partner before intercourse.
Intercourse
When having intercourse, if you are the male, you can say to your partner, “Don’t be afraid to tell me if you want me to go faster or slower or whatever.” If you are the female, you can say “go faster or slower” or whatever you want.
Many women find it difficult to have an orgasm during intercourse. However, if they masturbate during intercourse or demonstrate how to do so to their partner, they may be able to have an orgasm.
Sexy Pillow Talk
Sexy pillow talk is a highly effective form of eroticism. While having sex, moaning and groaning and saying sexy things to your partner can increase the pleasure of having sex. “You make me so hot; it feels so good to be inside you,” for example.
Furthermore, if a man suspects his partner is about to have an orgasm, he may start moaning and groaning and saying sexy things. The same is true for women. She may begin moaning, groaning, and saying sexy things if she suspects her partner is about to have an orgasm. This can heighten the orgasmic experience.
